Valentine’s boundaries message
Draft a respectful message explaining supplied limits around gifts, public posts or celebrations. Add your real source details before generating the draft. Paste this prompt into ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude or Grok, change the parts in brackets to suit you, and generate.
- Written for
- ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude, Grok
- Occasion
- Valentine's Day · 14 Feb
- Status
- Tested 9 Oct 2026 in Grok, 9 Oct 2026 (one run; model id not exposed)
- Test settings
- The page's exact default prompt was run once in Grok on 9 Oct 2026. The text in Your notes is an illustration, not a real event. ChatGPT and Gemini were not used. The first result was kept.
- Variability
- Another run, or different notes, will change the wording. This is the first result for the illustrative notes on this page.
Prompt
Draft a respectful message explaining supplied limits around gifts, public posts or celebrations. Input: use only the notes at the end. If a fact this job needs is missing, ask one direct question and do not guess. Format for Valentine’s boundaries message: 1. Preserve the person’s agency, avoid blame and do not manipulate the recipient. Do not add facts, names, dates, numbers or sources that are not in the notes. Notes: Message for a partner, in the sender's words, about limits they chose. February 14 should stay low-key. Do not post photos of them that day. Skip gifts over 20 dollars. A walk or no plan at all both work. The sender decides this for their own comfort, not to score how the partner feels. No makeup gesture is owed. A small card, if still wanted, stays private and inside that amount. Giving nothing is all right. The sender will do the same: no public post and no gift over 20 dollars. If this misses what the partner needs, they should name the limit they want. The sender will not argue them out of it.
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Example output
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I want February 14 to stay low-key between us. Please do not post photos of us that day, and please skip gifts over 20 dollars. A walk or no plan at all both work for me. I am deciding this for my own comfort, not scoring how you feel. You do not owe me a different kind of gesture to make up for it. If a small card is still something you want to give, keep it private and inside that amount. If you would rather give nothing, that is all right. I will do the same: no public post and no gift over 20 dollars. If this misses what you need, tell me what limit you want on your side. I will not argue you out of it.
How to use it
- Open ChatGPT, Gemini, Grok or Claude.
- Paste the prompt and replace the [BRACKETS] with your details.
- Review names, facts and the requested format; follow up with corrections or missing details.
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- Fill Customise with your real details. Do not let the tool guess a missing fact. Write the missing information clearly if you need to.
- Press Copy prompt and paste it into the AI app named above. This page copies the prompt. The answer is created in the external app.
- Check names, facts, numbers, language and the format you asked for. If something is wrong or incomplete, ask for a correction.
Good to know
- Written and structurally reviewed as an editable prompt; not independently run in a named AI app. Supply the requested source facts and verify the draft before use. A visual preview shows the task format, not an AI-tested result. The notes in Your notes are an example, not a real event. Run once in Grok on 9 Oct 2026. Replace the notes with your own before you use the draft.
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